October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), a time dedicated to shedding light on the pervasive issue of domestic violence and dating abuse, and advocating for those affected.
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Understanding Domestic Violence and Dating Abuse
Domestic violence (DV) and dating abuse can take many forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, financial and beyond. It affects individuals of all backgrounds, however, risk and impact increases when we include the intersectionality of race, sexuality, and socioeconomic status with gender. In the U.S., roughly 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence. Visit the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) for more detailed statistics.
Domestic violence is underreported due to a variety of reasons, including fear, lack of awareness of resources, and shame. This is the result of a long, harrowing history of patriarchal values that normalize control, stigmatize and blame victims, legitimize power dynamics, and so on. As a result, many people make the mistake of judging violence in relationships as a “manageable relationship issue” or something that should be addressed privately. A core flaw in this thinking is that it disqualifies how many perpetrators of violence do not present as dangerous to the outside world, and that community support saves lives. Addressing these misconceptions and values requires cultural change, education, and open dialogue about relationships, consent, and equality.
Increasing awareness and discussing domestic violence openly with friends, family, and colleagues helps reduce stigma and can encourage survivors to seek help.
Some common signs include:
- Isolation from friends and family
- Changes in mood or behavior
- Frequent injuries or unexplained absences
- Low self-esteem or anxiety, consistent criticism from partner
- Control over finances or personal freedoms
If you have questions about unhealthy behavior in a relationship, LoveisRespect is a great resource. Take a look at their warning signs checklist.
Seeking Support
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, tell a supportive person or contact a confidential resource below:
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), 1-800-621-HOPE (4673), or 711 for Deaf or Hard of Hearing.
- Local Shelters and counseling services in NYC: Sanctuary for Families, Safe Horizon, StateWide Program Search
Domestic Violence Awareness Month serves as a powerful reminder that we all have a role to play in addressing domestic violence. By raising awareness, supporting survivors, and advocating for change, we can work toward a future where everyone feels safer in their relationships. Let’s take action this October and beyond, standing in solidarity with survivors and striving for a society free from violence.
Domestic Violence Awareness events in the NYC area this Month.
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